It’s sad that the person who gave you the best memories, become a memory.
That’s the most cruel part of change in our lives. People change, feelings change. Nothing is permanent. That’s why I do hate change, well not entirely but this part, this is just heartbreakening.
Did you experience the time when you thought your friendship with this person would last forever ? Then suddenly, just because of one thing, or sometimes, nothing, you are drifted apart ? I know that feeling. And now, I’m trying how to deal with it when the time comes that i would experience it again.
I think that most hurtful thing is, you just drifted apart because the other changed, and you are left at the sides. Or maybe the spark isn’t there anymore. The memories didn’t matter. You just let each other go.
Maybe the best solution for this is, acceptance. That life is indeed, not fair. That life is completely changing. And maybe, someone out there is more deserving to us. I don’t know. All i know is that, despite of those experiences, i learned to moved on and guess what ? I’m happy now. Well, maybe not entirely happy but i accepted. Yes, i still miss them but now, more people are coming into my life, to focus on, to love on. And that’s what matters.
So, to anyone out there experiencing this, some relationships don’t last forever but i tell you this, never forget those people who stayed and those people who will come, life is full of surprises, you can’t miss it. 🙂